Real Princesses Carry Whips.

 

My name is Gabi, and this site is dedicated to enabling the innocent civilian to negotiate the somewhat daunting world of Dominance and submission; and if it isn't too terrifying a concept, perhaps offer some tips and advice for the adventure. For most, the words simply conjure up a picture of Christian Grey looking broody with a whip, whilst Anastasia gives it a fearful look (the whip, I mean) and bites her lip, but to anyone who has even the vaguest idea of it the entire practise is so much more. 

 

In the real world, I have recently graduated with a degree of a creative nature, and finally decided to admit that nothing interests me more than sex-having, and talking about it afterwards. The only thing that interests me more is the fact that, whilst this a large healthy part of any adult’s life, nobody is really able to talk about a lot of it.Too often people are told what they should buy, how they should act and what should arouse them.

 

I don't care whether you are a rugby player who secretly likes the idea of being bent over, or a woman who's quite intrigued by the idea of pony play. What you play with and where you stick it are nobody's business but your own. Unless exhibitionism is your thing; in which case, have at it. 

 

I am a writer, and practise what I preach. These are my experiences, as a twenty-something year old woman to whom the world of sex is nothing but exciting; all the the mishaps and confusions of buying toys, using them, and all the embarrassing noises that occur in between (everybody squelches, okay, it’s really not a big deal). This site is predominantly a way for me to hone my favourite writing skills- erotica- and to give advice to anyone who has ever wondered exactly what it feels like to wear a ball gag.